The Process of Becoming:

 In Blog, Purpose


I have completed my application to grad school and will soon be on the road to first earning my Life Coach certificate (classes start in April) and then becoming licensed in Professional Counseling (classes begin in the fall.) With all I have learned both in earning my BA Psychology and in my personal experiences in professional counseling and personal development realms, I am not qualified for trauma, mental disorders, or relationships counseling.  Although I don’t know if I will ever open a counseling practice, I have a strong desire to continue my education.  The more I learn, the deeper I can go and the more effective I can be in helping others become the best version of themselves.

I have titled myself “Personal Power VOICE mentor.” 🙂

  • Value
  • Openness
  • Intention to Act
  • Clearing
  • Expression

I am passionate about helping people to “Find their V.O.I.C.E.” and I am confident in my abilities to guide people who are looking to discover their own person virtue, power and purpose.  The steps I share with the people I work with are the same steps that I have utilized over and over again, and I know they work. I have great faith that those who will follow these steps and trust the process, WILL have results.

One of the things that excites me most about the process of becoming is that it never ends. The more I understand abundance, the more I realize that it includes EVERYTHING–not just wealth and knowledge, but also possibilities, creation, & growth. There is no end!! And that excites me!!

One of the most empowering aspects of personal development is that the more work I do on ME, the more confident I become; and the more confident I become, the less I think about myself, which frees me up to truly think about and serve other people. Sharing what I have learned with other people and watching them shine more brightly lights me up! For this reason, I will never stop.

Rod Hairston  (speaker, coach, and author) says that “Once you fall in love with the journey, your life is beautiful.” I have come to know that this statement is true. I have fallen in love with the work–both for myself and for others–and my life is SO beautiful!

A few years ago, I created a vision for myself. Actually, it was created for me–downloaded–given to me. It says “I am an ambassador for women. I help women discover who they truly are and to find the power in their virtue. I am a leader of an ‘army’ of virtuous women who are changing the world, making a mark, turning people toward God. I use spoken word, music, social media, language, culture, personal growth, and psychology–all of my passions have come together and have found their purpose here.”

I am seeing my vision come to manifestation. This excites me.


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  • Krista

    That’s fantastic Cary! Congratulations on the next chapter in your life story!

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